My 3 Words for 2012

I have been reading Chris Brogan’s annual ‘3 words for the new year’ blog for several years now and never really adopted the concept. Like a lot of people, I resort to the usual resolutions (some I have had on repeat for several years) like ‘stop smoking’ or ‘exercise more’ or ‘start volunteering’ or ‘learn sign language’. So I thought I would at least try Chris Brogan’s concept for 2012 and see what happens.

Release

I have a pretty good memory and while often this is a blessing, it can be a curse. It has made it difficult for me to move on in a lot of situations and put things behind me. I constantly find myself being reminded that our eyes are on the front of our heads for a reason and if we were meant to be looking backwards then our bodies would enable us to do so but they don’t. I once read in a book about the notion of extending your arm with palm open and visualizing whatever it is that you need to release floating in the palm of your hand. You visualize it there and then take a deep breath and blow. Blow that thing far and out away from you and release it. This is something I want to embrace and conquer in 2012; the ability to know how to release something so that it doesn’t overcome you.

Restore

For the last year I have overcome quite a few obstacles. I was laid off from my job for the first time in my life striking a fear deep in my core that I don’t think I will ever overcome. I had my wisdom teeth removed and suffered through 3 months of hospital visits because a piece of bone was left inside my cheek cavity as a result. And I found myself to be a willing participant of a relationship that consumes me. My friends have shared with me that they ‘don’t know where I have been.’ Meaning, I have truly lost the person I was. I could say that I have evolved into the person I am today but I don’t believe that to be true deep in my soul. I know I have lost something and I aim to restore it as soon as I can.

Commit

I felt it necessary to add this word here because of my past inability to live up to and commit to things I resolved to do. So this word really represents my commitment to myself and the things that I say I want to do and truly have the passion behind it to carry it out. Maybe I won’t quit smoking in 2012 but if and when that becomes a goal of mine, then I need to commit to it 100%. I will not resort to or accept partial completion (unless it’s unavoidable of course) and if failure ensues, then I will commit myself to the fact that failing can be ok sometimes and I will release it.

Release. Restore. Commit.

2011 was a truly groundbreaking year for me in so many ways. I don’t think I have had a year quite like it in some time and I am looking forward to a prosperous and happy 2012 for myself and all of you. Thank you so much for your support and for simply being here.

{image taken by REUTERS/Lisi Niesner}

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JayNair 5 pts

I love your 3 words and I can totally relate to each and one of them. 2011 has been an amazing, sad, odd, fun, depressing and just weird year all around. I guess for a moment there I just lost touch of myself and missed the "brighter" me. I did realize that I was carrying too much sadness, anger and resentment with me that I couldn't be my true self. I let this get the best of me. I let "them" win.

I have felt this way many times and knew that however long it took, the only person that could get me out of this rut, was myself. I eventually did and reading this post, I realize I've got a lot of releasing, restoring and committing to do. I let people who do not matter get the best of me, I've made that a reason to feel "stuck" because they made me feel I was not doing a good job at all and was practically a waste of space. When I finally got part of me back, I realized that the only reason they talk, is because they are intimidated by me and accuse me of things they are afraid I am actually capable of doing! And damn right I am! So yes, I am committed to making sure no one makes me feel that way again.

My horoscope today said to plan a revenge so sweet by living my life and carrying on towards my goals. And I believe, that is indeed, the sweetest revenge I could get.

Good Luck this year, you've helped me in a few ways with this blog, so however 2011 was for you, know that you still made an impact on strangers lurking on your blog. :) I just hope you find more happiness and reasons to smile and grin more this year!

C_Pappas 131 pts moderator

JayNair

Wow Jay! Sounds like you had one heck of a year! I think that 'release' is something we all need to conquer and learn as human beings. Things will never always be perfect and we need to know what to hold onto and what to just get away from us.

Your horoscope is awesome! Thanks for sharing! I feel like there are a lot of positive sentiments abotu 2012 and I hope that some of that positivity is shed on you.

Thanks so much for being part of the community here! Happy new year!

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JustInTheSouth 131 pts

I really love your 3 words... Release. Restore. Commit... I have a feeling that this year will be a year of restorations for me. Well I hope it is. Keep up that great work.

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C_Pappas 131 pts moderator

JustInTheSouth

Thanks Justin. It's funny in a way because every word I came up with started with 're'. I had renew, re-energize, revitalize. Every word that really symbolizes change of some kind. Hate to admit it but I let some things get the better of me and I let people take advantage of me in ways I have never done before. I just took a peek at my 2012 horoscope and it stated that big changes were coming this year and the person I am today starting the year is not going to be the same as the one ending the year. There were positive things like a major step in my career which may allow me to have a more public voice in the field and of course, love will enter my life :)

If restoration is your word for the year, then I wish you many successes and positve outcomes! You deserve it! Thanks so much for your comment and Happy New Year to you and yours!!

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